I never expected to have feelings and it was terrifying.”īut very quickly there was something else altogether to be scared of. I’ve talked about being asexual for years. I don’t know when started having feelings, but I didn’t realize that I had them – at all – until then. Jared and I were transparent about our discussion with both Heidi and all others involved with the situation. Despite having “full permissionâ€� to do more, all we did was talk about our feelings. “On February 7th, 2018 took me on a walk. She was enjoying the advantages of an open relationship (including a long-term boyfriend) and wanted Jared to do the same.” “In early 2018, told she wanted him to explore his feelings for me. She also provided a link to a legal site explaining these laws.īut here’s where Holly spills the tea. If you are a consenting adult who swaps nudes with another consenting adult, THEN posts those nudes on the internet without consent, that is called “Revenge Porn,â€� which is a felony in 48 states.”
Oddly enough, people can lie on the internet, and omit information. But it’s NOT justice to treat every accusation as a conviction. Please know that I do not expect everyone to believe me. You have the evidence, but you’re not allowed to share it? Is this some kind of “my tax returns are under audit” move? It’s certainly convenient not to have to share the receipts. These accusations have legal ramifications for all involved, and for that reason, no one can comment on them or share information publicly.” “That said, I have seen relevant receipts which prove that confirmed the consent and ages of those individuals he interacted with. This behavior is an abuse of power and that is NEVER OK. “Before going forward, I want to make clear that I do not approve of any influencer exchanging nudes with fans. Well, that explains why we haven’t heard from her so far. It’s OK to ask for mental health help when you need it.” I’m not ashamed of this at all, it was the right thing to do and I was safe there. I have not spoken out sooner because on May 9th, I checked myself into a hospital because I was having self-harming thoughts. I encourage you to spread healing instead of hate. I just need to bring the truth to light regarding and tweets are not meant to spread hate, so please do not use them to bully or What I’ve experienced for the past ten days I do not wish on anyone.
I’m telling my story with the receipts I can legally share, with no hate and no vindictiveness.
“For the past year, I’ve been trying to help someone I care about leave an abusive relationship. Get it all directly from Holly, who broke her silence by tweeting up an absolute storm Monday night: In fact, she claims Heidi was the one who already had herself another man - and encouraged ProJared to hook up with her in the first place! It went from the fun, juicy kind of sex scandal to the icky, need-a-shower kind.īut Commander Holly, the other woman in the scenario, has a different story to tell.Īccording to her, it was Heidi who was the abuser, the manipulator. What’s more, after her revelations, multiple fans came forward corroborating this, saying ProJared had sent them nudes and encouraged them to send them back - and then posted many of them on a private site.Īt least two of these accusers claimed they were underage at the time. ProJared lost over 100,000 YouTube subscribers in just a day! Oh, and he had been soliciting nudes from his fans. Not only that, she unleashed on ProJared, saying he had been emotionally abusive, gaslighting her about the cheating. Heidi responded to fans reaching out by saying she had no idea about the announcement - because she had already been BLOCKED by her husband after she claims she found out he had been having sex with their friend Holly Conrad, who is also a YouTube personality (she goes by Commander Holly) for months. It was a very chill, thoughtful “conscious uncoupling” type mutual announcement. Popular gamer Jared Knabenbauer, aka ProJared, announced his divorce from his cosplayer/vlogger wife Heidi O’Ferrall, aka AtelierHeidi, on Twitter a couple weeks back.